Alabama - My Parents' Death and Foster Parents
MarkD published on October 4, 2025Dad (Linus A. Davidson): Taping was done at Grandma Davidson's (Dollie Catherine Lankford) house. We want to do a little recording for posterity. Now Mama, where were you born. Just talk like you were talking to me. GM: Well I suppose I was born in Alabama, but I don't know what part. Dad: Wasn't it Geneva. GM: Well Geneva, Alabama is where I lived. Dad: Your maiden name was Dolly Catherine Lankford. GM: Yes. Dad: And your parrents died when you were real young. What were their names. GM: William and Nancy. Dad: William and Nancy Lankford. GM: Aha. Dad: The best you know they lived in Geneva. GM: Well I guess so. GM I didn't live in the town of Geneva. I lived in Geneva County. Our Post Office down there was called Vaughnville then. It was a little country Post Office. You see my adopted people, the Vaughns lived there. My foster father's people and his brother lived about a mile from there. I don't know why they named that PO Vaughnville. Dad: They were probably influential citizens of that community. GM: Well, I guess so. I don't know exactly why because there were a lot of other people there.
Dad: About how old were you when your parents died. GM: Well I think I was about 5 yrs old. Dad: Do you remember them. GM Well I remember her a little. And my father I heard I was about 7 yrs old. I don't know exactly. I just can't remember exactly about anything like that. I remember a man took me to my foster mothers. And I remember hearing him talk to her. And I don't know exactly what they were saying but they were talking about me I guess. Ruth [Whittiker]: You said he gave them some money. GM: Well I have heard the neighbors say that. But nobody else did. But he was talking to her as I say I think he took me there for her to take care of. And I know I hung around him. I don't know what he was to me. But I guess it must have been some my father. I hung around him because I was afraid of them. But then afterwards I didn't know when he left. I guess we were out playing. And I don't know when he left. And that is the last time I know anything about him. Dad: You don't know where they came from or what nationality they were. GM: I think he was English. And she was Scotch I guess. Ruth: And you thought they came from Florida. GM: Oh I don't know.I don't know too much about it. Ruth: Your Uncle Don came from Florida. GM: I don't know whether he lived in Florida or not. No I didn't say where he came from. Dad: Well then you lived there in Alabama with the Vaughns. GM: Yes about 14 yrs I guess. I remember Ma wrote it in my little album. She said you have been a part of my family for about 14 yrs. For nearly 14 yrs I think she said. I don't know if I have it now. I think I threw it away. Or tore it up or something. Anyway then her brother came from Kansas and wanted me to go home with them. Course that was after I got about... Well I must have been about 18 or 20 Yrs old. I never have... I just didn't keep track of how old I was. But anyway when I went up there I went to school in Kansas. But I hate to try to tell anything that I am not too sure about. Dad: Well sure but you just can do the best you can. Thats all you can. GM: But some of those other people Unkle Arkes, he was Pauls brother, my foster brother, they told me about this. Course they would like to undo these other people so I don't know exactly what they were. But anyway, he said that he gave them some money to take care of me. I don't know $100 or $200. Dad: Was quite a bit of money in those days wasn't it. GM: Yes I guess it was. Anyway I guess he left when I was out playing. I never did see him no more. And he must have been thinking he was going to die pretty soon or something so anyway.
Dad: Well then you took a trip to Kansas. GM: Yes with Uncle Joey and Ant Kate Hayes. Dad: Now were they Vaughns. Oh they were Hayes. GM: They were Hayes. It was her brother and his wife. And of course I didn't expect to stay. I remember that when I got there I didn't like it at all. Dad: Who did you visit when you got there. GM: Well it was her daughter. Her and her daughter. They were there. Dad: They came down to Alabama visiting and came back up there then hah. GM: Yes. Dad: And ... how long did you visit. GM: Oh I was there till I was married. Dad: About how long was that. GM: Went to school a while and oh lets see. I went to school about 2 seasons I guess. And then I worked a while. Just stayed at her house and helped her with her work. But anyway then I got married.
Dad: How did you meet Papa. GM: Well in the first place, we both belonged to ... well in the first place I remember I had gone to the Methodist church one night. Guess it must have been by myself. It was a little ways around the corner. About a block or two. He come and asked if he could see me home. I said well I guess so. Well then he took me home. Then later on we belonged to the Good Temper Lodge. And so I remember one night he was acting as one of the Officers and I was there and that's how we come to meet at the Good Temper Lodge you might say. Dad: Aha. I don't know what the Good Temper was. GM: Well it was some Order. A good deal like they have now to stop people from drinking. You were supposed to touch not, taste not, have not and all like that you know. Dad: I see. Well about how long did you go with Papa before you got married. GM: Oh I was pretty near 22 when I got married. Dad: Aha. GM: Why didn't I keep track of all of those things so I could remember about it. Dad: Well that is the way we all are. There are a lot of things. I wish I had a diary when I was a little child. It would sure be lots of interest. GM: But oh about a year I guess, probably.